When emotions are running high you rarely take the time to think about the consequences of your actions.  You let your heart determine which direction you will take, but your heart is drawn to its fondest memories and it doesn’t always understand what it means to be patient.

The first two weeks after a break up is the most crucial time in determining what chance your relationship has of being saved.  Your ex left for his or her own reasons, but they too might be letting emotions influence their thoughts.  This is why you must allow the “thunderstorm” of a break up pass before trying to pick up the pieces.  Running into the fury is a losing battle.

Take a break from the situation and begin with these 3 Steps for Getting Your Ex Back.

Remember that the people who think they can beg, buy, or stalk their way back into their lover’s life almost always fail.  These techniques never work because they don’t solve the core issue – your ex actually has to want you back.  Forcing yourself on them will only turn them away.

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